Their Perfect Match Book Review

 I was going through the books that I needed to read in my library pile before their were due back at the library. I have been going very slowly on the books so there were a bunch that were due.  I started this book and I was really confused because I didn't know this book but I totally knew this first story.  Their Perfect Match: A 2-in-1 Collection by Debbie Macomber is made up of two books. The first book is Promise Me Forever and the second is Adam's Image.  Promise Me Forever is also in another book that I read here. But I got a chance to read the other book included in this anthology.

 

 

 

Two classic romances of women discovering that the unlikely hero might be their perfect partner.

PROMISE ME FOREVER

Physical therapist Joy Nielsen has never been daunted by the challenges of her career. And her latest patient, businessman Sloan Whittaker, isn’t going to change that, no matter how hard he’s making things. After a serious accident, he’s refusing to relearn how to walk. Joy is determined to make sure he recovers, and once he does, she’s prepared to move on to her next patient. There’s only one problem: after a soul-searing kiss, she doesn’t think she can get over him…

ADAM’S IMAGE

To all the world, Susan McKenzie, successful romance editor, seemed to be the perfect heroine. But there was one thing missing in her life, and that was the perfect hero. Then she met Dr. Adam Gallagher. He seemed to fit the role perfectly—surely together they would live happily ever after. But Adam didn’t seem to want to play the hero’s role. Aloof and somewhat mysterious, his professional detachment could drive any woman wild. Was he throwing a twist into Susan’s well-plotted life?

I thought this was a good story but very dated because it is an old story reprinted.  It was funny to see life before cell phones because it is certainly different then the way things go now.  Susan was working most of the time and she was fairly shy personally.  She spent most of her extra time doing work in her extra time.  When she went to a party, she was sitting off to the side and observing things that were going on and she noticed Adam.  She thought he was kind of plain looking but she was drawn to him.  Susan went up to Adam to talk to him and found him to be interesting.  They decided that they wanted coffee and Adam took her to the kitchen where the women there went out of her way to get him coffee and apple pie.  There was an up and down relationship between the two of them because Adam believes that she is too beautiful and can't possibly be attracted to him because he is plain.  It causes a lot of issues and you have to pick up the book to find out what happens.  I hope that you check out the book and the two stories included here. If you have questions about the first story, check out my first review.

Survior Mom Book Review

 I was excited to find Survival Mom: How to Prepare Your Family for Everyday Disasters and Worst-Case Scenarios by Lisa Bedford.  I was interested to see what information was included in the book.  What was very clear is that this book written in 2012 was right on track for the things happening in 2020.  It was interesting to see someone who was talking about preparing long before everything hit and some of the things that she said we right on the money of how things went this year with food shortages and other issues.

 

 

 

“Lisa Bedford’s Survival Mom is a much needed resource of practical preparedness and survival knowledge that anybody (even ‘Survival Dads’) will find an indispensable addition to their self-reliance library!” — Survivalist Magazine

When a global pandemic makes you feel out of control, anxious, and unprepared, let the "Survival Mom," Lisa Bedford, show how you can put plans into place to give you peace of mind and keep your family safe. 

Undaunted by the prospect of TEOTWAWKI (The End of the World as We Know It) Lisa Bedford tackles every what-if and worst-case scenario head-on, offering practical and upbeat advice on how to prepare your family for whatever might come your way.

From a how to prepare food storage so that we can quarantine at home, to preparing for days without electricity, or an unexpected job loss, or chaos after a natural disaster, Survival Mom provides everything you need to become self-reliant and establish plans for your family, including:

•       preparing the home for a natural disaster

·        everything you need to know about food storage

•       alternative sources of energy in a power’s-out situation

·        the ins and outs of sanitation

·        keeping your family safe and secure

Lisa started her blog (survivalmom.com) when she realized that all the literature on survival and preparedness was written by men, for men. Long a teacher and trainer, she took it upon herself to be the missing voice for the many moms out there and has quickly become an expert in the subject of survival, speaking around the nation about disaster preparedness.

Whether you’re a full-fledged “prepper” or just getting started, Lisa’s real-life stories and customizable forms and checklists along with an “you can do it” attitude, Survival Mom replaces paranoia and panic with the peace of knowing YOU have the power to keep your loved ones safe and secure.

I thought this was an interesting book and well worth the read.  The beginning has a quiz to say what kind of prepper mom are you with humorous questions to start off the book on the right step.  My answers led me to "Your Survival Mom DNA is starting to show!" It has helpful chapters like prepare more, panic less and survival begins with water.  It proceeds to some of the more extreme chapters such as Survival Finances and It Takes a Compound.  The great stories are what makes you go quickly through the book because you want to find out what happens next. I thought that it had a lot of information such as storing water for individuals at least 1 gallon per person per day. We are stocked up on lots of foods but maybe not enough to last through a year because we have been using the last 9 months while we have been at home and using it.  I found it to be really interesting to read all of the tips including preparing go bags and other things to be ready for emergency evacuation.  I hope that I can be more organized and ready for more emergencies. If you want to check out more, she has a website that has more information.  I hope that you check out this book and enjoy it as much as I did. So much information in a great story format.

Menu Plan Monday 11/9

 

 

Pasta with garlic bread

Salsa Sloppy Joes with mac and cheese and corn bread

Grilled Montreal Chicken  with White Rice

Rosemary Chicken and Egg Noodles

Homemade Pizza (Pepperoni, Garlic Chicken, Buffalo Chicken and Pizza Knuckle Roll Ups)

Southwest Chicken Tortilla Soup

Chicken Fries, Chicken Wraps and Homemade French Fries

Last week went fairly close to plan although I didn't take out the meat soon enough so we did have Tacos until Wednesday so we just switched meals. I was glad to have everything to make the meals that we planned and thought that meant that I was pushing back the grocery shopping trip. I knew that we were going to need a few things in the middle of the month so I thought I was aiming around the middle of the month. We have most of the things to put meals on the table this week too but did that stop me from going to the store?!  Nope!!

We went out to drop off my husband's car for service so I took the advantage of having a driver and being close to the stores to hit a few.  I went to Aldi and got milk, tater tots, and a few things I thought would hold us over. Giant was on the way so I stopped to get $0.77 brownies after coupons. Safeway posted a $5 off $5 coupon on my account so I knew that my family would love some Cheez Its.  They were out of the big box so I thought I was leaving but the small boxes were on sale for 2/$5 so I got two boxes and paid only tax.  Ibotta made it hard to resist because they put out a free Thanksgiving meal so I went to pick it up at the store because it wasn't available on the grocery pick up.  I decided to go to the store closer to my house so that I could get the items that the other store was out of.  I was glad to get almost all but two items.  I also used a gift card for the purchase so there was no money out of pocket and I got money back.  I earned an additional $1 bonus too.  I totally forgot the lettuce when I was at Walmart (and the parchment paper but that isn't essential) so I had to go to Giant to get the sale on cereal and  Ritz crackers.  Luckily, the lettuce was on sale and on my way around the store I saw some clearance whole chickens so I decided to get enough to use a $5 off $25 coupon that my neighbor gave me. What was the start of the month with no shopping ended up with almost $60 in money spent so not sure that was the stock up once a month plan that I had in mind but I got a bunch of great deals.  Here is hoping to do better planning next time.

The Price of Valor Book Review

 I was excited to see that there was another book in the Global Search and Rescue. Price of Valor (Global Search and Rescue) by Susan May Warren which is the third book in the series.  It says there are only three books in the series which I never know if that means that is because that is all that are published or all that are going to be published.  I am going to patiently wait for the next book in the series to read too!!

 

 

Former Navy SEAL Hamilton Jones thought that the love of his life was dead. But when a girl claiming to be his daughter shows up with a dire message from his wife, Ham knows he will stop at nothing to find her and bring her home.

Kidnapped by rebels while serving as an interpreter in Ukraine, Signe Kincaid has spent the past decade secreting out valuable information about Russian assets in the US to her CIA handler. Fearing for her daughter after being discovered as an operative, Signe sends her to Ham for safekeeping. She's ready to give her life for her country, and she can hardly expect Ham to rescue her after breaking his heart over and over.

When Ham discovers the reason Signe has kept her distance, he must choose between love for his wife and love for the nation he has vowed to protect. Will he save the many? Or the few?

This book seems to leave off where the last book stopped because Hamilton, called Ham by his friends, is looking for his wife who he thought was dead.  His life was turned upside down when his daughter shows up and he is trying to figure out what this means.  He works hard to solve the mystery and find the woman he loves.  As a life long hero, it is hard for him to give up on anything because he feels that it should end well.  He wants to make sure that he makes the best life for his daughter including finding her mother.  You won't know all the twists and turns unless you pick up the book for yourself.  I know that you will be on the edge of your seat and have trouble putting the book down. I hope that you check out this book and the rest of the series.  I can't wait to read the first book in the series which is the only one that I have missed so far. I can't wait to go back and find out how the series started.  Have you read any of the books in this series??

October Month End Budget for Groceries and Eating Out

 October was a really long month.  I realize that it has 31 days but I mean it seemed to go on forever.  I  had been doing a really good job at once a month shopping where I got everything for the month on one big day of shopping but that normally takes me an entire day.  I would get a small trip to get milk and lunch meat later in the month but September messed up that processes with school starting.  I started off with the smaller trip and then spent the majority of the money on the second time. It was amazing how quickly the month was over when it seemed to take so long.

Below are all the things that I got for the month and how much I spent. I got 25 lbs of potatoes (which might have been a lot after the last two months of potatoes purchases). I got lots of meat with13 lbs of ground beef, 21 lbs of boneless chicken, 4 lbs of bacon, 2 lbs of turkey lunch meat, pepperoni, and ground sausage. These are all expensive purchases and my totals feel high but I also feel like I have a ton of food for the coming months. 

Giant $8.43

I went to the store to get the weekend specials.  There was another sale on 5 lbs of potatoes for $1.47 so I bought another 15 pounds. There was a sale on lettuce for $0.88 so I grabbed one since we were almost out of ours.  I also got four packages of Gerber baby food. 

Aldi $29.51

There was another amazing sale on yellow potatoes for $1.29 for a 5 lb bag so I picked up another 10 pounds of potatoes. I might have a problem getting this many potatoes but we really do love our potatoes. I got rice because although we had Basmati, Jasmine and some from Wegman's but my son has declared that he only likes the kind from Aldi.  I got two more packages of bacon at $2.59 a pound. I couldn't pass them up in case the price went up. I got some sausage which was $1.49 per pound and I am actually a little sad that I didn't get more for the freezer. I got a bag of Honey crisp Apples and a bunch of bananas. I got another package of Parmesan Cheese because ours was almost empty.  I got 4 blocks of Mozzarella cheese because I thought we were low but I was wrong because I had plenty but that just means that we have more for next month.  I got a bag of potato puffs because I used all of the tater tots in the freezer through quarantine.  It became a favorite for my son I grabbed a bag to taste test from Aldi. I had no idea if we were out of pepperoni so I got another bag. I got milk and 2 dozen eggs.  It was a lot of groceries to make sure that we had enough for the month.

Harris Teeter $18.10

Turkey Hill Ice Cream was on sale for Buy Two, Get Three Free so I went to get five.  There was also a great deal on Quaker Chewy Bars which we were $1.47 each. While I was there, I also saw Black Cherry Kool Aid which has been discontinued at the other stores so I grabbed some. I also got my free taste and tell drink.

Safeway $1.14

I got an amazing coupon which I wanted to use for $5 off $5 in groceries so I decided to get my son some Cheez-its which were $5.99 for the family box so I only paid $0.99 plus tax. He enjoyed it but ate it in less then a week!

Giant $0.56

 I got a free can of Pepsi with the Friday Freebie coupon that was loaded on my card. I had another coupon to get $0.50 off Duncan Hines Cake Mix which was on sale for $1.00 so it was $0.50 plus tax.

Aldi $12.95

I went to Aldi because we got a bag of chicken fries and they were gross per my son.  I returned them and got the money back and they were out of chicken fries.  I got a replacement kind which my husband and I think taste amazing but my son doesn't like. Since I was already in the store, I grabbed Cran Grape, White Vinegar, Bacon, Margarine Sticks, Margarine Tub, Honey Mustard Salad Dressing and Bacon. We didn't need more bacon but I wasn't sure what we needed.

Safeway $0

I got another freebie loaded to my card for peanut butter.  I figured that it was great for cookies and it was amazing.

Safeway $0.81

I got another $5 off $5 coupon and a price reduction for $5.69.  I decided to use my Kellogg's Family Rewards points to get a $1 off coupon. I also got one package of Gerber baby food.

Giant $0.55

Another great deal with free Crush soda from my Friday freebie coupon and $0.50 off the Betty Crocker Cake Mix which was $1 so I got it for $0.50 plus tax.

Wegman's $40.69 + $2.44

This was my crazy splurge for ground beef because they finally had 80/20 which is a lot cheaper then the 90/10 so I bought two packages which will last about 13 weeks because I put it in 13 bags in the freezer.  Flour was on sale for $1.19 for 5 pounds with a limit of 2 so I got two. I did another transaction with two more because the cashier said it was fine.

Harris Teeter $36.31

This trip was to get the weekend evic Pringles which were $0.47 after sale and coupon and they are my son's favorites. I also grabbed the $1.79 chicken which I thought I was going to get two packages but they looked pretty good so I got four.  There was a coupon for $5 off $30 purchase which also came off that I wasn't expecting so that was awesome.  Sadly they were out of the Heinz Ketchup deal so I didn't get to buy those and they still aren't offering rain checks.

Walmart $0.02

We were almost out of sugar so I went to see if they had the 25 pound bag and they did so I grabbed a gift card to pay for it with my free points.

Aldi $15.10

I got two pumpkins at $1.89 each. Splurged on cookies for my son because I found the double stuff ones which I haven't seen in months.  I got 6 blocks of Sharp Cheddar because we were running low.  I got a container of skim milk since it was my last trip to the store in the month even though we weren't out. They were out of lunch meat, chicken fries and something else that was on my list but I just didn't have the energy to hit another Aldi and Harris Teeter and I had food that had to get into the refrigerator so I ended my shopping day after my 6th store. I am grateful that we have a lot of options in the area but it is also exhausting to chase after all the deals in one day.

 

Walmart $0

I went to the store to get a new bike helmet for my son because I ordered it  online and we waited patiently.  It was over two weeks of waiting for it to leave the FedEx facility.  I checked daily and it wasn't happening so I set up a FedEx account because it said it would tell me more information.  Nope nothing! I finally found the link to complain to Walmart and they were super strange in the online chat but decided it was lost and they provided a refund or reship option.  I decided I just didn't trust them and there was stock in the local store so we went the next day and got a new one the next day.  I got a gift card on My Points to pay for some Peppermint Ice Cream for my husband.  The rest of the gift card went to our non-food purchases which I don't count into our budget. He really enjoyed it!

Aldi $16.87

I knew that I was at the end of my budget but things have been so hard to find at the store and I haven't been able to get chicken fries for months so I was down pretty low with what we had in the freezer so I grabbed three. Our budget needs to be flexible in these crazy times and I know that I was low last month so there was wiggle room. I also got some bananas for my husband's breakfast.

Lidl $9.02

I had to stop to get lunch meat because Aldi hasn't been carrying the lunch meat that my husband likes.  I talked to someone that works there and she said that they were replacing the pound containers with these little 8 oz packages that were nearly the same price.... well that is twice the price so not for me thanks!  I stopped to get two packages there and there was plenty.  I also decided to grab two bottles of Cran Grape because I thought me might be running low on the Lidl one. 

Safeway $0

I went to the store to get the freebie of the pizza that was added to my card.  We were pretty excited to have the convenience food which we got to enjoy together for lunch.

Total Retail $407.36

Total Savings $214.86

Total Rebates $2.46

Total OOP $190.04

I was initially disappointed that I was over my $160 budget. Looking back at what I got, I know that I got tons of things to use for months to come. Shopping is still difficult here with stock issues and higher prices which is hard when we switched to once a month shopping. I ask the person at Harris Teeter about the ketchup and he says try back tomorrow which is not going to happen but in the past, I totally would have gone back.  I could have gone to another Harris Teeter but I had already been to 5 or 6 stores in one day already so I just couldn't do it and I had frozen things to get home. It is so hard for me to shop sales like I have been doing for the last 12 years and I actually got a lot of sale prices this month so I am counting this as a win.  I was $11.24 over my total budget so that is not too bad (see eating out information below to see why I blame the pizza)! Also grateful to have used two gift cards from My Points which I have been working really hard on since Swagbucks has gotten so hard to save a little more on the budget.  How are you doing with shopping and budgeting?

Eating Out or Take Out

Our big splurge at the end of the month was to get Pizza Hut.  We decided to go with two pizzas so that we would have leftovers to eat before or after Halloween celebrations.  It was great to have the quick meal around the busy time.  We spent $21.20 which is under my $40 take out budget but I certainly spent the extra money with the grocery shopping.

Menu Plan Monday 11/2

 

 

Pasta with garlic bread

Tacos with corn bread

Grilled BBQ Chicken Sandwiches with Mac and Cheese

Rosemary Chicken and Potatoes Casserole

Homemade Pizza (Pepperoni, Garlic Chicken, Buffalo Chicken and Pizza Knuckle Roll Ups)

Fried Rice with Chicken Pot Stickers 

Chicken Fries, Chicken Wraps and Homemade French Fries

 

Last week went according to plan and I am excited that I have the entire November meal plan down on the calendar.  I am hoping that I can pull together all the things that we need to make all of the meals including a bunch of yummy things while still shopping for Thanksgiving and the coming month.  I have most of the things that I need in our house to make the meals that I am planning this month.  The one thing that might change things up is that my son is getting braces.  I hope that doesn't hinder all the great things that he has been eating recently but fingers crossed that he comfortable enough to eat all the meals.  Hope you have a yummy meal plan planned!! 

Happily This Christmas Book Review

 I was excited to see this book on the shelf at the library and wondered if I had read it before but I decided to give it as chance.  Happily This Christmas: A Novel (Happily Inc, 6) by Susan Mallery was the sixth book in the Happily Inc series that I loved.  I was excited to see that there was a new book and that it was Christmas.  I am still sad because there are no new Christmas movies to watch yet so Christmas books will have to fill the void. 

 

 

 

There’s no place like Happily Inc for the holidays…

Wynn Beauchene has a thriving business, a great kid and a mildly embarrassing crush on the guy next door—local cop Garrick McCabe. She’s a strong, independent woman who can’t help dreaming what-if about a man she barely knows. Until he needs her help…

Garrick’s pregnant daughter will be home for Christmas, and his house needs a woman’s touch. Garrick and his little girl were tight once and he’s hoping a small-town Christmas will bring her back to him. But thawing his daughter’s frosty attitude will take more than a few twinkle lights. Maybe sharing the holiday with Wynn and her son will remind her of the joy of family.

As the season works its magic on these wounded souls, Wynn realizes it’s time to stop punishing herself for a painful secret, while Garrick remains haunted by the ghosts of past mistakes. Will he allow Wynn to open the only gift she truly wants—his heart?

Read more in the reader-favorite Happily Inc series:
Book 1: You Say It First
Book 2: Second Chance Girl
Book 3: Why Not Tonight
Book 4: Not Quite Over You
Book 5: Meant to Be Yours
Book 6: Happily This Christmas

There were a few different stories going on in this book.  Garrick was living next door to Wynn for a long time but finally goes over to talk to her when he finds out that his daughter is coming to live with him.  His daughter, Joylyn, is 21 and pregnant and moving in with him because her mother needs a break.  He is so excited to have her come and live with him that he is willing to change his whole life.  He goes to Wynn to turn his bachelor pad into a home so she immediately helps.  Wynn realizes that she has a lot of work to do because he doesn't have a dining table or dishes or anything else to make his daughter feel comfortable.  He went shopping with her and picked out all the things that she told him to pick and she worked on making the house a home.  There is lots of drama with Joylyn because she is feeling sorry for herself and being pregnant without her husband who is deployed and missing all of the friends at the base.  There are plenty of things going on in town with tons of wedding and lots of friends so I hope that you pick up the book and enjoy the small town life as much as I did.  I hope that you check out this book and others in the series.  I know that I have enjoyed the series and I am sad if this is really the last book in the series.  Fingers crossed that she might come back to this small town again later.